sometimes a healthy relationship isn’t 50/50 because it can’t be, and that’s okay.
disabled people who cannot take on an equal portion of the work in a relationship deserve to be loved too, if that’s what they want. and as long as their partner is getting the support they need, and is happy to take on that work, then what’s the issue? it’s nobodys business but your own the way that works in your relationship.
if you or your partner are disabled, and you can’t split the work in the relationship 50/50, that’s okay. you’re not abusive, or a baby, or unloveable because of that. I promise
Alternative readings are good, I say, while grinding my teeth because I don’t like this particular one
It makes for a healthy fandom ecosystem to have a variety of takes, I say, while halfway to seethingly daydreaming how I would carpet bomb this take out of existence if I could.
